Saturday, July 16, 2022

Following Jesus – Finding our way home in an age of anxiety
Henri Nouwen
SPCK Publishing (September 2019)


Chapter 2: The Call: “Come Follow Me”


Following Jesus, as described in the Gospels, is first of all an invitation to follow the Lord of abundance. We are invited to follow the Lord even if we can’t fully absorb the enormousness of this divine hospitality.


I hope you see what I am saying. Fear is precisely what makes us hold on to our position and possessions. It makes us hold on to what we have, because we are so afraid we will lose what we need. Love is overcoming fear. Love is letting go and trusting that in the letting go life will multiply. Life will become more.


Chapter 3. The Challenge: “Love Your Enemies


Page 85, Love of Friends


Marriage is the mystery that God loves us so much that we can discover together how God’s presence can be made visible here and now by our commitment to each other. Our faithfulness becomes possible not because we stay the same or stay together, not because we are compatible or that we have the same life goals, but because God holds us together in that first love.


Page 99


Sometimes there is an eagerness in us, or around us, to turn Jesus into a problem solver. We think he will solve all our problems, and if all our problems are not solved we don’t have enough faith. That is not really Jesus’ intent. At least that is not what is in the Gospel. Jesus is not there to get us out of hot water. He is not the cure-all for our difficulties. Jesus is not the end of the hard times in our lives. That is not what Jesus is.


To follow Jesus means that we do the walking. We are the ones doing the talking, living life, getting involved. We are the ones struggling, the ones who need to work hard. Jesus, in a way, does not tae away the difficulties of our journey. I even dare to say that, following Jesus means everything changes while everything remains the same. You know very well that followers of Jesus – disciples – are people who live real human lives. The work of life does not come easier to them because they are disciples.


Chapter 6. The Promise: “I Will Be With You Always”


We do not do service to earn anything. It is not an anxious need to save the world. We don’t act on the condition that change will take place. NO. You can see how intense that might become. If our only concern is “I better help him or her”, or to do things to change a person or the world, or the country, or the politics, or the social condition – if change is the condition of service – we are going to be very bitter and very soon. But if service is an expression of gratitude for the love we have already experienced then we can be free and engage in change without trying so hard. Service is an expression of the gift you have within you that you want to share with others.


In a way, service is an act of gratitude. We are so full of God’s presence, we are so aware of God’s promise, that we don’t want to hold it back. We want to share it.

 

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